SOLACE: Soul + Grief
This podcast is sponsored by SOULPLUSGRACE serving the San José/Santa Cruz area, offering grief support and grief journeying with spirituality. I hope to help you travel through grief with God at your side.
"I am a trained Spiritual Director for those who seek to complete the 19th Annotation of St. Igantius’ spiritual exercises OR seek spiritual direction while grieving. I have also worked as a hospital/cemetery chaplain and grief doula. I believe all paths lead to God and that all traditions are due respect and honour. I take my sacred inspiration from all of my patients and companions–past, present and future; the Dalai Lama, James Tissot, St. John of the Cross, the Buddha, Saint Teresa of Ávila, and, of course, Íñigo who became known as St. Ignatius. I utilize art, poetry, music, aromatherapy, yoga, lectio divina, prayer and meditation in my self-work and work with others. I believe in creating a sacred space for listening; even in the most incongruous of surroundings."
BACKGROUND
- Jesuit Retreat Center, Los Altos, CA -- Pierre Favre Program, 3 year training to give the Spiritual Exercises of Saint Ignatius
- Centro de Espiritualidad de Loyola, Spain -- The Spiritual Exercises of St Ignatius of Loyola -- 30 Day Silent Retreat
- Center for Loss & Life Transition – Comprehensive Bereavement Skills Training (30 hrs) Ft. Collins, CO
- California State University Institute for Palliative Care--Palliative Care Chaplaincy Specialty Cert. (90 hrs)
- Sequoia Hospital, Redwood City, CA -- Clinical Pastoral Education
- 19th Annotation with Fumiaki Tosu, San Jose, CA, Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius
- Santa Clara University, Santa Clara, CA M.A. – Pastoral Ministries
CONTACT ME: candeelucas@soulplusgrace.com with questions to be answered in future episodes.
SOLACE: Soul + Grief
Love Beyond Loss
This week's discussion paves the way for understanding and comfort as we navigate the path of loss and bereavement. The profound wisdom of Jesuit theologian Karl Rahner, explores the continuum of our souls and the indelible connection we maintain with those who have passed on. Through the lens of faith, we contemplate the transformative power of death, seeking solace in the thought that our loved ones are not lost to us but are instead "transfigured into light, into power, into love." This episode promises a sanctuary of understanding and the warm embrace of shared experience.
Be sure to subscribe to this podcast on Google Podcasts, Apple, Amazon Music, Spotify, or follow us on the Facebook pages of Gate of Heaven Cemetery in Los Altos, California, or Calvary Cemetery in San Jose, California.
SPIRITUAL DIRECTION WHILE GRIEVING IS AVAILABLE FREE OF CHARGE
You can reach us at: ccoutreach@dsj.org
To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542
Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat".
Additional Music and sound effects today by: via Pixabay
Welcome to this week's episode of Solace: Soul + Plus Grief. I'm Candee Lucas. We're glad you're here. This podcast is sponsored by Catholic Cemeteries in the Diocese of San Jose. The death of a loved one is a very difficult life transition and we hope we can answer some of your questions, help you find where God is moving in your life as you continue your grief journey, and remind you of the power of your faith and love for God. You're always welcome in our circle of healing, love and care.
Candee Lucas:Psalm 71. I cry aloud to God. I cry to God to hear me On the day of my distress. I seek the Lord by night. My hands are stretched out unceasingly. I refuse to be consoled. When I think of God, I groan. As I meditate, my spirit grows faint. I consider the days of old, the years long past. I remember. At night, I ponder in my heart and as I meditate, my spirit probes. I conclude my sorrow is this I will recall the deeds of the Lord. Yes, recall your wonders of old. I will ponder all your works on your exploits. I will meditate your way. God is holy. What God is as great as our God? You are the God who does wonders among the peoples. You have revealed your might and with your mighty arm you redeemed your people, the children of Jacob and Joseph and me.
Candee Lucas:The Jesuit theologian Karl Rahner gave us many great writings, both on the spiritual exercises and on the eschatological end of our Christian lives. And his writings on death, I think, are both illustrative and comforting to those who are grieving, since we are offered a glimpse of the continuum of our souls. H e wrote --the great mistake of many people is to imagine that those whom death has taken leave us. They do not leave us. We do not see them, but they see us. Their eyes, radiant with glory, are fixed upon our eyes. Oh, infinite consolation. Though invisible to us, our dead are not absent. They're living near us, transfigured into light and power and love. Oh, infinite consolation. Though invisible to us, our dead are not absent-- he wrote.
Candee Lucas:I have often reflected upon the surest comfort for those who mourn. It is this-- Affirm faith in the real and continual presence of our loved ones. It is the clear and penetrating conviction that death has not destroyed them, nor carried them away. They are not even absent, but living near to us, transfigured, being lost in their glorious change. No delicacy of their soul, no tenderness of their hearts, no special preference in their affection. On the contrary, they have, in depth and fervor of devotion, grown larger, a hundredfold. What is for the good? A translation into light, into power, into love. Those who, on earth, were only ordinary Christians become perfect. Those who were good become sublime. That concludes another episode of Solace. A new one drops every Friday. Please subscribe to us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon or find us on Google. I'm Candee Lucas, your host, aftercare coordinator, chaplain and spiritual director at Catholic Cemeteries at Gate of Heaven in Los Altos, California. Please contact us if you have questions or seek spiritual direction. Our contact information is in the show notes. Be gentle with yourselves. Be well Vaya con Dios.
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